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Results for 03/02/2007 to 03/22/2007
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Last week, BIG BREAST said:
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"Developing Breasts
My breasts are developing, and kids are laughing, they call me "big breast" at school! What should I do?"
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462 SmartGirls replied:
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Talk to a close friend. They might be going through the same thing as you are. Even if their problem is not identical to yours, I bet you could find a lot in common between getting teased for developing breasts and getting teased for other reasons. |
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At this age you're probably not the only one going through this. Everyone's bodies are changing, and it can be a weird and difficult time for anyone. There is no need to be embarrassed by your experiences of developing; it's all a part of growing up. Oftentimes, bullies at school are going through the same problems, and they tease other kids as a way to deal with their own confusion. |
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If the teasing is always from the same person or group of people, or it makes you uncomfortable, go talk to an adult at school. Tell a teacher you trust, or tell your school counselor. These adults are there to ensure your safety at school, and they will be able to help you. |
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Try talking to an older female (an older sister, mom, aunt, family friend) who you feel comfortable talking to. They have probably gone through a similar hard time, and might be able to help you through yours. It also sometimes just helps to talk about something, to talk about your feelings. |
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56% gave other responses. Some SmartGirls said:
At this age, everybody is developing at different rates and so it's a weird time for all kids your age. Those people who laugh and tease are very likely to be insecure and jealous that they haven't developed yet. Hold your head high and ignore them. If it becomes really horrible make sure you talk to a teacher about it. Don't feel bad about it, the same thing is happening to me. All you have to do is be strong & don't let your feelings put you down. You have to be confident in yourself when you?re going through tough times like this. Ignore them. If the ones teasing you are girls, they're probably just jealous. Remember that most girls would kill for your 'changes'. Tell them that you're proud of your body. Don't let anyone bring you down. You?re beautiful, and you know that, and that is all that matters.
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