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Results for 11/30/2006 to 12/22/2006
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Last week, cloey said:
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"Me, My Mom, and Changes
My mom has been trying to talk to me about my period but it is embarrassing. What do I tell her when she tries to talk and is it ok to talk about it with her?"
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404 SmartGirls replied:
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Sometimes it's easier talking to someone who isn't so close to you about personal matters. Your family doctor or nurse can provide you with the basic information you need on body changes and can answer any questions you have. |
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If you are really worried and embarrassed about talking to your parents tell them how you feel. Sometimes parents get embarrassed too talking to their children about body changes. Being honest with them and explaining how you feel may break the ice. You may find out both of you are a little nervous about the conversation. |
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Although it can be uncomfortable talking to parents about your body, remember that they were once your age and went through all the changes you're experiencing now. Although the conversation may feel embarrassing in the beginning you may be surprised by how helpful they can be in giving you the information and advice you may need. |
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If you don't feel comfortable talking about your period or other body changes with your parents find a friend, family member, or other adult that you do feel comfortable sharing with. |
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44% gave other responses. Some SmartGirls said:
I have this book called "The Care and Keeping of You". You could ask your mom to get it for you and you can read it together. I suggest you read the parts about periods. Talking about it is a good thing because there may be things that you don't know that you need to. Write a note! That's what I did. The hardest part was approaching my mom about the issue and so that eliminated it. Just simply go up to your mom and say "Mom, I know you want to start talking to me about growing up. The truth is I'm just not ready. When I am I'll let you know." She'll understand! Well, if you already know about it then tell her. It is totally ok for your mom to talk about it with you. I mean you probably are not the only one nervous about it. Your mom probably is too, ya know. There is a great website about periods and other girl stuff. You can show it to your mom and tell her it's ok, you already know. Here is the website: www.beinggirl.com. It's great.
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