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Last week, can't tell say my name ;) said:
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There's this boy at my school named Max and he is the cutest boy I have ever seen in my life! I want him to notice me and go out with me, but I'm afraid to ask. What should I do?"
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769 SmartGirls replied:
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Don't talk to him. If he's that cute, he's bound to know it and have a huge ego. Who wants to risk that? Besides, maybe ignoring him will get him curious as to why you're the only girl not interested in him.
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Talk to him! You'll never know what he's thinking unless you hear it from him. Besides, you'll get to know him and he'll notice you. |
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Find out who his friends are. If you're friends with any of them, tell them of your interest. Who knows? Maybe he's interested too! Try to establish a friendship with him first before anything else. |
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Find out what he's into. If you're into similar activities, such as the same music, sports, or hobbies, ask him to attend an event with you as part of a group. Or, you could just meet him there. You're bound to end up talking!
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43% gave other responses. Some SmartGirls said:
You are a little too young to be dating boys at your age. Why don't you just hang with your friends and concentrate on school instead of worrying about somebody who most likely isn't old enough to drive a car yet. Be a kid and enjoy life! Don't rush yourself into things that you are not ready for. It could lead to things that you might later regret. I think if you like him enough then you should ask him it?s not the end of the world if he says no. I asked a boy out in yr7 and he said no but I?m in yr11 now and we?ve been going out since yr9 because he changed his mind! I think you should maybe say something over the internet so it is not so embarrassing. I mean at least you would get the word out to him with out physical contact. Hi, my name is Kate. I would like to give you some advice on how to not be afraid to ask a guy out on a date. Here are the things that you need to do: 1. You could ask him when no one is around. 2. Ask him what his name is. 3. Ask him is he has a girlfriend. 4. Ask him how old he is. 5. Then, would be a great time to ask him if he would like to go out on a date on Friday night, like maybe a dinner then the movies. If he says no then just tell him oh it's ok, but it was nice talking to you. But I think he will say yes.
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