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Results for 11-MAR-02 to 18-MAR-02
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Last week, Annie said:
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"I'm in a bit of a pickle. One of my brother's good friends and I hooked up not too long ago. My brother once told me that if any of his friends EVER touched me he'd kill them. I know he won't go as far as that, but I think he would beat him up if he found out. Now, I really like this guy and he likes me but I feel like I'm breaking a law or something every time we are together. And it's so hard to hide it. Should we try to talk to my brother about it? Should we break up? I don't know! I really need help!!!" |
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102 SmartGirls replied:
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As long as your relationship is legal, who cares what your brother says? |
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This guy is your brother's friend. You should never put yourself
between a bond like that. |
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Ask your brother if it's okay to date the friend. Maybe your brother will change
his mind once he knows your feelings. |
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Have a serious talk with your brother's friend. Is he prepared to possibly lose
your brother's friendship over you? Do you want to hurt the relationship you have with your brother over
this guy? |
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Some SmartGirls said:
- Talk to your brother and ask him why he said that. Explain the whole situation to him and maybe he'll change his mind. If he doesn't, tell him that he's being too much of a protective older brother, that you're growing up, and that it's really not his decision. If you really think that, of course.
- You are only 15 … and how old is this guy? There are many fish in the ocean and you are still young at heart.
- Your brother might have thought that one of his friends might hurt you. If this relationship is making you uncomfortable, then why let it go on? Find another guy and have a good relationship. I hope this helps you.
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